Eng/Esp avanzando en el mapa de mi vida

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1. Antes trabajaba mucho con la idea del futuro
2. Antes priorizaba a mi hija mi esposo la familia
3. Antes lo pensaba dos veces para darme un gusto

• trabajar y vivir el dia a dia como el ultimo sin excesos

• Dar y reconocer realmente el valor y la importancia que las cosas y las personas tienen en mi vida,es crucial

• Darme mas regalos física y mentalmente,

• Apreciar mas la vida,una puesta de sol,un aire libre,una buena lectura

• Tener mi espacio de soledad,que no es lo mismo que vivir en soledad

• hacer por los demás hasta donde pueda.

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                                         Inglish

Hello friends, I loved this challenge, after reading the post called exercises to move forward, I remembered my teaching days, but above all I made a review of what I have lived.

When we raise, form and educate, we always start from turning that innocent little person into an integral, critical and self-critical human being, but with the passage of time, and the situations that life puts you in, you notice a change.
We teach to share, to put ourselves in someone else's situation before judging someone else, but sometimes these situations are very complex.

This made me remember that my great-grandmother was a person with a tradition, she prayed in the mornings and in the doorway with a loaf of bread she prayed for the sick, the poor and the innocent who were in prison, and I said, Mommy grandmother is crazy, nobody who is in prison is innocent, only as an adult I understood her words.

Because sometimes you are in situations that life takes you and puts you in the blink of an eye, even if you come from a normal family, zero dysfunction.
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Some time ago, well to be more exact, during the pandemic of covid, I feel that after having gone through that situation in a very strong way I have intense, believe me friends something that no human being should or must go through, made me see the map of my life.

I say the map of my life because like any map it has lagoons, mountains, roads and trails, that if you do not have a good legend to interpret them and recognize the best routes to follow, you get lost in the topography of life.

I am honest with you, Covid has left me very damaged physically and emotionally, while I was walking with her I saw that everything was negative, I was looking for a thousand excuses not to give up, I say excuses because I was telling myself what mistake I made to be here.

It was a situation in total negativity,I did not see anything positive and much less interesting,however the instinct of survival,made me think many things like for example that I should continue living,that I had mechanisms to support me in the state of deseseperation that I had,and that I had to change many things in life if I went ahead.

So as soon as I got out of the covid I sat at home and made a deep analysis of how I had led my life, who and what was important in them, who was there and who was not because I lost family in this pandemic and I traced some changes that have made me today enjoy more, life itself and not everything that composes it materially, for example

1. I used to work a lot with the idea of the future.
2. I used to prioritize my daughter, my husband and my family.
3. I used to think twice to treat myself

Today with my small goals that I have set for myself such as

• To work and live each day as the last without excesses.
• Giving and really recognizing the value and importance that things and people have in my life is crucial.

Give myself more gifts physically and mentally,

• To appreciate life more, a sunset, fresh air, a good read.
• To have my space of solitude, which is not the same as living in solitude.
• To do for others as much as I can.

With these small changes I am happier every day, I am better for me, although for others maybe not, as someone once told me ...When you see the game lost, play to win you.

thank you
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