Walking away is the best option ~LOH week 173

Hi ladies of hive, happy new week to y'all, and hope this week brings you good tidies. Every new week brings us new contests to engage in and this week isn't an exception so here is my entry to this week's contest.

Nowadays premarital sex is rampant among young people. What if you got pregnant and encountered rude in-laws with a partner who is incapable of standing by himself or standing for you, would you rather endure their maltreatment or walk out on your relationship and raise your child alone, why?

Premarital sex is very rampant now, rampant to the point of young girls dropping out of school due to unwanted pregnancies while others look for a remedy to terminate the pregnancy so as not to ruin their lives while others take precautions to avoid getting pregnant.

Growing up I've seen how young ladies get pregnant for a guy at a very young age and move to live with the guy's family cause their parents wouldn't accommodate them, living with a guy's family isn't easy especially when not legally married to him, you see the guy's parent treating the girl badly ( not all tho).

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Having a partner who can't stand up for himself can't stand up for you, cause how would he do that, if my partner doesn't stand up for me it means he doesn't love me because if a man loves you he would always stand up for you when you're at the right track and would protect you.

Love makes you feel wanted, love creates room for accommodation, and staying in a place where you're not wanted is not love and can be dangerous. Imagine you can't endure being maltreated and you end up in depression then taking your own life.

In my opinion, I would walk away from such a relationship and be alive besides we are not married, and having a child for you doesn't guarantee you to marry me, I can't stand maltreatment, something I can't stand means I can't endure it as well, such an environment isn't conducive to even raise a child cause the child will grow up seeing all these and who knows if my child's grandparents will end up loving my child because they didn't love me while pregnant I don't think they can develop a love for my child ( maybe they can with time). I love my life more than staying in an environment like that and tolerating others' attitudes and behaviors towards me, imagine I gave birth and they ended up not loving my child I wouldn't want my child to experience being maltreated or hated.

I'm gonna walk away and raise my child alone, I know being a single parent can be very hard cause I grew up with a single parent I see how my mum worked very hard to put food on the table, pay our school fees, I saw those secret tears she shed at nights but she keeps on saying its the best decision she has ever made in her whole existence.

Being a single parent to my child is the most amazing thing I'll ever do cause having a child will make me more responsible, I won't see myself like I used to before because I have an offspring who is looking up to me, someone who would become a huge part of my life, someone I'd watch grow in my arms, someone whose smile I'll see and appreciate the first day I met him/her, someone who's heartbeat I'd feel every day, someone who will bring out the mother role in me. I believe every child needs a father figure in their lives, I didn't grow up with a father so I wouldn't do the same thing for my child, I'm not gonna cut off my child's father from my child, and I'll still keep that father-child relationship going but I'm not gonna accept the father into my own life as a partner.

Thank you for reading🌹