Special advice to ladies ~ Loh 171

Hello, ladies of the hive, hope you're feeling great cause I am!!!

We live in a world where people are being talked down, bullied, and treated badly, telling you what you're worth and what you're not worth. When it comes to body shaming it is always the ladies.

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On a sunny afternoon getting home from school with my eyes swollen, my mum noticed it and called out to me but then I ignored her so she wouldn't start asking questions, I walked straight into the room, carried my pillow, and covered my face to scream my voice out suddenly heard my room door opened it was my momma, "are you okay" I replied with tears in my eyes, " I'm fine mummy" she wasn't convinced with my response cause I was crying then she came close hugged me tight, held my face up and asked again " are you okay!! What happened" I replied " In school, some persons were mocking me because I was too fat and calling me all sorts of names" Then my mum looked at me and replied, "You are the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, you're bold and beautiful".

Now body shaming is something most people can't bear, it hurts when people see you and call you names relating to your body size, which makes you feel less perfect and less appreciative. I've heard stories of how body shaming has sent people to their early graves.

What is body shaming? it is an act of saying negative things about your body or someone else's, body shaming can lead to depression, low self-esteem, and the general feeling of hating your body which makes you feel less comfortable around other people.

My advice to ladies is to love themselves the way they are, we were all born separately by different parents, as our parents are different and so are our body sizes, we owe ourselves the obligation to love ourselves and accept our body the way it is, it's all we've got, it's the place we've got to live in forever.

Don't let body shaming get the best of you, you're beautiful just the way you are, don't let the opinions of others concerning beauty matter, they can't create a human, you were designed perfectly, so accept yourself and appreciate the beautiful you.

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