Esp/Eng Ladies of Hive Community Contest #153 Trait I would like to change in my husband!
Feliz inicio de semana bellas damas de la colmena, estoy feliz de estar nuevamente por aca participando en el concurso semanal, ya por la numero 153, propuesta por la amiga @ifarmgir, con unas interesantes preguntas, hare mi entrada con la 2da!
Happy start of the week beautiful ladies of the hive, I am happy to be here again participating in the weekly contest, already for the 153rd one, proposed by the friend @ifarmgir, with some interesting questions, I will make my entry with the 2nd one!
¿Cuál es el manierismo o rasgo más molesto que tiene un hombre o tu pareja (cónyuge o novio) del que desearías que se deshiciera o cambiara?
En ocasiones anteriores les he comentado que tengo 22 años con mi esposo, y, a pesar de la larga convivencia, hay cosas que me molestan y, desearía poder cambiarlas en el, y estoy segura que tambien hay cosas en mi que mi esposo desearía cambiar, jejej; pero, bueno ese no es el tema! jajajaj
Soy una persona que le gusta hablar mucho, puedo pasar horas hablando tranquilamente; pero, a mi esposo no le gusta mucho escuchar, y muy poco presta atención! eso es terrible!
A veces estoy hablando con el y, después de un rato le pregunto: me estas escuchando? a lo que el responde: Si! entonces le digo: dime que te decia? por lo general me responde correctamente, jejeje, pero, yo siento que es pura suerte, que fue algo que medio escuchó al final!
A veces estamos conversando, y, por lo general , la que habla soy yo, entonces le digo que no es un monólogo, sino una conversación, esto pasa muy frecuente, el me dice: yo te escucho, pero yo no hablo mucho!
Creo es un rasgo en mi esposo que me gustaria cambiar (aunque ya creo que no lo voy a lograr! jejej), porque me gusta conversar, pero que sea una conversa fluida, no que sea yo sola la que habla!
Sucede que algunas veces me le he tenido que molestar, y, hasta hacerle un berrinche para que se involucre conmigo en la conversación, pero he entendido a lo largo de los años, que, realmente es su forma de ser porque es así con todo el mundo, incluso en el círculo de amistades todos se han dado cuenta y lo han mencionado, pero creo que ellos tambien ya lo entendieron y aceptaron!
Realmente me molestaria mucho si solo fuera asi conmigo, pero es su estilo de vida en general! y, he tenido que aprender a lidiar con eso! pero si pudiera cambiarlo, lo haria sin pensarlo! jejej
What is the most annoying mannerism or trait that a man or your partner (spouse or boyfriend) has that you wish would get rid of or change?
On previous occasions I have told you that I have been with my husband for 22 years, and, despite living together for a long time, there are things that bother me and I would like to be able to change them in him, and I am sure that there are also things in me that my husband would like to change. , hehehe; Anyway, that's not the subject! hahaha
I am a person who likes to talk a lot, I can spend hours talking calmly; But, my husband doesn't like to listen very much, and pays very little attention! that's terrible!
Sometimes I'm talking to him and, after a while I ask him: are you listening to me? to which he responds: Yes! So I tell him: tell me what he was telling you? He usually answers me correctly, hehehe, but, I feel like it's pure luck, that it was something that I half heard at the end!
Sometimes we are talking, and, generally, I am the one speaking, so I tell him that it is not a monologue, but a conversation, this happens very frequently, he tells me: I listen to you, but I don't talk much!
I think it's a trait in my husband that I would like to change (although I already don't think I'm going to achieve it! hehe), because I like to talk, but make it a fluent conversation, not just me talking!
It happens that sometimes I have had to bother him, and even throw a tantrum to get him to get involved with me in the conversation, but I have understood over the years that it really is his way of being because he is like that with everyone. world, even in the circle of friends everyone has realized and mentioned it, but I think they also already understood and accepted it!
It would really bother me a lot if it was only like that with me, but it's his lifestyle in general! And, I've had to learn to deal with it! But if I could change it, I would do it without thinking about it! hehe
Hasta aqui mi entrada, espero la lectura haya sido entretenida!
Gracias por pasar!
Dios te bendiga!
So far my entry, I hope the reading has been entertaining!
Thanks for stopping by!
God bless you!
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Hay personas que son así y a veces la falta de comunicación es algo difícil de sobrellevar. Saludos 😊
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Saludos @yessi08 , es un mal de muchos hombres jejejeje te entiendo perfectamente!
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Each of us have different personalities and it looks like your husband is the silent type. And because we can't really change people, we just have to adjust our expectations hehe. 22 years together is amazing so congratulations to you both!
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Quizás para que vea lo divertido que alguien hable contigo, sácale un tema que le guste y así, la comunicación va fluyendo mejor.
Es una buena estrategia!
Gracias amiga por tu recomendación!
Saludos!