LOH BLOG CONTEST #151: What Questions do I want to ask my fellow women?
Hello everyone! I am here again and will write another blog. This week, I'm so happy because there were some great questions that made me interested in answering them.
I'm having a hard time choosing which of the two questions I want to answer now. But because I'm interested and I also want to share my answer with you, I decided to answer them both.
The first question given is this:
How has joining Ladies of Hive benefitted you?
Honestly, this community is very helpful. I can't even imagine that there are these kinds of communities that I will know about or join. It's a great help because, apart from writing and earning money here, this community is also very inspiring to women like me. It's a big help because, apart from earning money from writing, there are also inspirational thoughts and lessons that we get from our fellow women.
I've been here in the hive for a few months. Every week there are questions, and those questions are difficult to answer. I admit that I also have a hard time answering them, but there are smart and talented women all over the world who are amazing because you can learn lessons from their experiences as strong and independent women.
I'm still young compared to the people here, who think very maturely. So even if I don't answer a question here, I still get knowledge from other women like me, and that is the biggest and most important thing I have benefited from here in this community.
If you were the LOH judge this week, what TWO questions would you ask?
To be honest, there are some questions I want to ask women like me, but those questions have already been answered in the past, and some questions that came to mind are not new anymore. And those other questions that I have in mind have been said or mentioned by other participants in this writing blog contest. So I really had a hard time thinking of or rethinking questions for my fellow women.
But I felt relieved that I have two more questions that came to mind.
First Question: Supposedly/imagine If you are in a situation where you got married early and/or have children, how can you show the people who criticise you that they are wrong and that you can continue your dream in life even if you are in that situation?
Honestly, I was curious. I'm not saying that we should normalize a situation like that. But, you know, there are young women nowadays who made a mistake in their life decisions, and they don't know what to do with that mistake.
As an older, strong, and independent woman in the world. I want to read or know if you are in their situation. What are the things you will do to show people that even if that happened to you, you can still show that you can rise in life and that it is not too late?
And I think this topic will help young women to get advice or ideas on what to do in these situations in life.
Second question: As a woman, do you agree that women should support their fellow women in everything?
You know what? It seems like it's hard to be a woman now. It's really difficult now to meet or find a woman who is a good friend.
In friendship, we are used to the mindset that whoever is your friend's enemy must also be your enemy, even if what you know is one-sided only. You only listened to your friend's side. Then they said, What's the point of friendship without that? Right?
But for me, I don't want to tolerate that kind of mindset, that I should always support everything that a woman does, especially when I know what my fellow woman did was wrong.
It's like, for me, I'll just support the women who I know are in the right place. The women who know they are in the right and don't do anything bad to their fellow women.
Especially, there are women who do things that hurt or anger their fellow women, such as the flirting of the boyfriend or husband of their fellow woman. Sorry, but I can't support my fellow women in that kind of thing or behavior.
Are you too? I also want to know what you think about the "girls support girls" thing.
CONCLUSION:
Honestly, I don't know if I still should ask these two questions, but of course I also want the answers to come from you as a woman. Also, I'm not sure if we have the same answer because we have our own beliefs and opinions when it comes to such things, right?
Anyway, that's all I can say for this week's LADIES OF HIVE BLOG CONTEST #151.
THANKS FOR READING!
PUBLISHED BY: @xanreo | HIVE
DATE: September 11, 2023
Before being a woman she is an human. You cannot always support anyone just on the basis of gender.
I would look at what she has to offer, her cause, opinions, not just blindly supporting.
Loved the questions.❣️
Yes, and it also depends on what a person is doing.
Nice and you liked my question. before I published it, I was shy and nervous about the reaction of others 🤧💖 Thanks for reading!
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Thanks a lot! I enjoy sharing my questions and what I want to express. Thank you for the Lady token 💗
That's was an epic entry, LOH has been benefiting even to me because when you listen to inspiring stories from other women, you tend to be motivated.
You second question, for me as long as you know what you are doing and you are very sure of it, it doesn't really matter what people say, just move on and ensure you get the best out of your expectations or else such person would be a mocked. Like some will say she doesn't even listen to anyone. Hahaa
True! the entries per contest are also impressive. the kind that makes you go "ah, yes, that's right" after you read it.
yes, right? let others say. you wanted it, you can't do anything else but stand by the decision you made in your life.
Thank you so much Ladies! 💖
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Okay thank you! but where can I send the link of my blog contest entry in Loh? 💗 I mean thread. 🤧 I was looking for that yesterday and I was too shy to ask in general
Good questions @xanreo , I've been with #LOH in the beginning and the questions vary in depth, shade and fun over the three years but the best questions get us to really thinking about our own values, desires and passions. That becomes the place where we come to know the writer's soul, and don't be surprised to find other gals that resonate with you.
Yes. Mods are also awesome to ask questions. And because of that, women bring out their thoughts. they strongly express their experiences, opinions, things that they have never shared with others. and in my opinion, that is one of the things that helps empower women to voice out what they think. 💗
If you are young, adult, old age. People often criticize at their convenience. Either out of ignorance or to fit in with others. The last part because of lack of self identity. Where there is envy or any negative thinking.. the important thing is to know who you are, and make decisions for yourself.
The mistakes, helps us to channel the bad decision. and what resources you need to solve the problem. There are things that can not be molded, but you can accept and take responsibility.
We are human and female. It doesn't mean that we should be friends because of gender. I love a friendship that is born healthy and little by little that corrects my bad attitude or misunderstandings. Because in my experience, in wanting to help all women, one person can get uncomfortable because they can't tolerate accepting help or hearing the truth. I loved reading you and of course the question is interesting.
It's true, learning and being inspired by other women in the community is one of the great benefits we get 💜
and the moderators are also friendly.
Same here, Jam. I'm also just reading from different women and learning from them.
Ang hirap kasi mga tanong ate witty. 😭 hindi ko alam if pano ko ieexplain yung answer ko sa tanong nila. Kaya taga basa nalang ako. 😭🤧
Hahahaha me too, I feel you Jam. hahahahaha
Oh wow! Thank you very much @thekittygirl and @innerblocks 💖