DREEM-WOTW S3 R3 CONTEST- "ANOTHER IN THE FIRE" STRENGTHENED AND REASSURED ME

Early 2019, I experienced my first and hopefully last heartbreak, it was a relationship that lasted for 5 years and 6 months, one that could have led to marriage but I am grateful to God it did not happen.

Before I continue with my story, I will like you to know what this post is all about.

This is my entry post to LET THE MUSIC TOUCH YOU - DREEM-WOTW S3 R3 CONTEST and the music that inspired this story is ANOTHER IN THE FIRE- by Hillsong UNITED and I am glad I found it.


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Now back to my story, the heartbreak I experience disorganised me, I blamed myself for not realising the red flags in the relationship earlier. I blamed myself for wasting a whole 5 years and 6 months building a relationship with the wrong person. I was hurt, suffered emotionally. I almost hated all men, but then I knew that there are still good men out there. I could not eat properly, or do anything for myself like I used to. But then, there was something that surprised me...

At that time, I worked for an establishment where I handled the hotel and event halls section as a Customer Service Representative on night shift for two weeks. There was also a Chapel in the building where anyone could go and pray. After attending to customers who were checking in for accommodation, I retired to the Chapel by 12:30 am.

To think I could pray, I battled, my mind was not at rest as I was still suffering emotionally. All I could do was to lay on the floor and say "Jesus help me" until I slept off and woke up again around 6 am and went back to my office. This continued for the 2 weeks I was on night shift. No one knew what I was going through and then, the thing that surprised me was, I realised that, despite the heartbreak, it did not affect me negatively at work. I attended to all customers with smiles, how that happened I could not explain. It took me less than 2 months to get myself back and strong.

After a few moment, still trying to heal from the heartbreak, I found the song, Another in the fire. This healed me, gave me strength and I believed I was not alone, the whole lyrics of the song penetrated my heart like it was all I needed. Here are two lines from the lyrics:

There was another in the fire
Standing next to me


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Check the FULL LYRICS of the song
Jesus was in my story, even when the relationship was on, he prevented me from getting married to the man, he showed me the red flags but I was to blind to see.

This song lifted up my spirit and reassured me that no matter the situation I find myself, Jesus will always be the ANOTHER IN THE FIRE.
Here is the YouTube link to watch

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Love from Winanda ❤️



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I am sure God was preparing you for a better person that was why the heartbreak happened, and I am glad your find solace in that song. #dreemerforlife

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Yeah sure, God always protects His children.
Thanks for coming around dear ❤️

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You had such a painful experience, it's not easy investing both time, energy and effort into building a relationship only for it to crumble. One thing I have come to discover is that God is a God of second chance and the one meant for you will locate you....just trust him

#dreemerforlife

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God is everly merciful and He saves His children from harm. It's always necessary to look out for the red flags in our relationships with people. That relationship is one I learned a lot from.

Thanks so much for the encouragement and for coming around dear dreemer ❤️

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You mean you spent five years in that relationship? You really tried. Well, everything happens for a reason, God knows why.

#dreemerforlife #dreemport

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Yes ooo, I tried 😄
So many lessons learned, a lot of drama and I'm glad God pulled me out.

Thanks for coming around dear dreemer ❤️

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Smiles . You are always welcome ma

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I'm happy for you too sis, I'm very sure that for has a bigger plan for you and in due time it will come to you.

I can only imagine how hard it was for you working in an hotel and seeing different couples go in and out but you still stayed strong. I'm glad you found a song that healed you beyond words.

This #dreemerforlife dropped in from #dreemport

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😄 Honestly, I didn't even pay attention to the couples I saw then, I was only doing my job with all smiles. Besides, the relationship was never meant to be, I didn't realise it on time.

Thanks for your heartwarming encouragement and for coming around dear dreemer ❤️

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I'm happy it's all in the past now and you are facing it head on.

It's my pleasure dear, you're welcome 🥰

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It's good that you found comfort from that song, these things happen and it's really sad. But it's good to know that we have a God who gives comfort and hope. Best wishes!

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Yeah, it can be sad. God is indescribable, I'm always stunned by His wonders. He consoles, comforts and protects His children.

Thanks for your kind words and for coming around ❤️

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Oh my!

I was so heartbroken reading this particular post, and the only thing I kept uttering is wow! After a whole of five years and yet he still kept you tied up in the relationship...?

Well, truth be told it's never easy to to walk away from a relationship of so many years. All the commitment, the hardwork and the energy that has been spent in that relationship can never be recovered but I believe that Jesus was with you.

I'm glad you left that relationship and you couldn't feel the deep pain of heartbreak because God was with you💔

Thanks for sharing this beautiful post! And I would remain a dreemer from #dreemport.

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Yes dear, it's all in the past.

You know, at times we experience somethings in life and we can't even explain why they happened. We learn from every stage in our lives.

Thanks so much dear for your kind words, your encouragement, and for visiting my blog.

I appreciate your presence and I'm sorry for replying late ❤️

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Another in the fire, indeed. I'm glad you felt His love, support, and guidance during that difficult time. I enjoy listening to Hillsong United too. Very uplifting.

Thank you for writing for dreem-wotw.

#dreemerforlife

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You're welcome.

Thanks for visiting my blog.

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You were in the hotel alone every night? In a way that situation was also a part of the miracle. It gave you the time to pray and heal.

#dreemerforlife

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Well, I was the only customer service rep. on night shift that period, my other colleagues handled the morning and afternoon shifts. There were security men on duty and also the housekeeper. Guests were lodged in their rooms already. There was a particular room reserved for any customer service rep. on night shift but I decided to spend my nights in the chapel that period.

The Chapel is mostly used by priests for their prayers when they logde in but none of them was around that period. So it was a good time for me and Jesus 😁

Yes, it was really a miracle I must say.

I really appreciate you coming around 😊

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