LOH # 148: My Life As A Breadwinner!

Hello to everybody! Another week brings another exciting contest for the Ladies Of Hive to participate in!

I'm delighted to participate in this week's questions because I provide for my family financially; thus, it is an honor and a great joy for me to share my perspective:

1. Nowadays, some parents pass on to their kids the family responsibility after they graduate from school. As a parent, do you agree with this, or will you allow your kids to shoulder burdens that are not supposed to be theirs? As a child, is it necessary for you to pay back your parents' laborious efforts even though it means you have to sacrifice your freedom?

2. If you are one of the breadwinners or financial providers in your family, how do you balance your work and life so your well-being won't be compromised? Tell us how you enjoy your life, your hobbies, or the source of entertainment you do, not to be consumed by stress. (Non-breadwinners can join, too.)

My response to the first question is "No," however...

No, because proper schooling for children is the responsibility of the parent. They are accountable for their children's future development. Furthermore, transferring household responsibilities to their children after graduation is improper. They shouldn't treat their kids like an investment and make them shoulder all their responsibilities once they graduate.

But it depends on their children to give back after graduating and become the person they want to be due to their parents' sacrifices.

As the primary provider, giving back to my parents is not about taking on their burdens; instead, it is a chance for me to show them how much I value and care for them. Not because I had to, but because I wanted to, I decided to give back. Since they are the drivers of my current existence, it makes me happy to provide them with things that make them happy. They have given me everything I have today, even if it means giving up my time and independence, in exchange for their unwavering support. My parents are aging, and we cannot live with them forever.

Therefore, if I ever become a parent, I will not force my children to carry our burdens; instead, I will allow them the freedom to become anything they want to. It is their choice whether or not to repay us, and as long as I can provide them with the life they desire, I will be happy and satisfied.

In response to query no. 2:

I support the family financially; therefore, here are some things I do to balance work and life:

I set boundaries between my personal and work time.

A healthy work-life balance necessitates separating the two, which is easier said than done. I begin by limiting the amount of time I spend working. Therefore, I make sure you utilize your time at work effectively to complete all the tasks I require.

Once I've determined my holiday work schedule, I follow it. That means I only conduct business-related tasks, meetings, etc., at work. I keep my personal and holiday to-do lists away from work to keep my mind on the duties at hand.

I am reminded to keep my attention on myself.

The main benefits of a healthy approach to balancing work and life are lower stress and more "me time." I set aside an hour every day for myself. I can use this time to read a book at our neighborhood coffee shop, get a facial at the spa, get a massage while I shop at the mall, or unwind in the park.

My mental and physical health will benefit from a quick digital detox, which can also prevent burnout. I take breaks for mental clarity by going outside, stretching, or breathing deeply. I'll be able to focus and have more energy when I return to work.

I take care of myself.

Becoming so engrossed in your duties is simple that you must remember to care for yourself. For instance, eat well rather than just enough to survive. I make sure I exercise frequently and get enough sleep.

Being the primary provider for the family paves the way for a demanding and strenuous existence. It's a demanding job that calls for many sacrifices, and living with a breadwinner has particular obstacles frequently kept silent.

Having a relationship with the family's primary provider is not always easy. Dealing with the associated emotions can be a complete emotional rollercoaster.

Let me say this for all the breadwinners:

Be thankful despite all the difficulties and hardships. You are worthy of God's choice and are rewarded. God utilizes you to spread love, generosity, and sharing. God consistently guarantees that anyone possessing these things will be showered with abundant mercies and blessings. There is always a reason for every difficulty, and you will eventually be grateful for overcoming it. Those challenges will strengthen your resilience as you enter your life.

All work is honorable if you are the family's primary provider. Even in the most trying moments when you feel helpless and at a halt, as long as you supply everything through your diligence and determination, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Your family is the best tool you will ever have in the face of everything. Make them your source of strength. Your life is truly privileged and deserving. Develop your strength because you are your family's pillar of support.