Loh Contest#173 ~ Walk Out Of A Relationship Due To Rude In-laws And…

According to the Bible, premarital sex is really bad and it is always advisable to keep your virginity for the person you are getting married to. I wouldn’t not want to go against the Bible but we need to be sincere with ourselves. We have see so many marriages that did not work because of partners sexual differences. That’s why I sometimes say that it may be better to know the sexual capability of your partner before you decide to get married instead of going through the long process of divorce.

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Also, we are in the world in which premarital sex is already common or rampant and that’s why we are seeing young girls get pregnant.

What if I got pregnant and ended up with rude inlaws?

Premarital pregnancy can happen to anyone. It can happen to me or you but what if we then end up in rude inlaws not just that also with the fact that your partner would not have a say?

Honestly, I’d feel like I’m doomed. God knows how much and well I have always prayed about my marital life so it will be very sad to have inlaws who will ruin the marriage for me. I’d cry for days or even weeks because it won’t be possible to leave there immediately.

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At the end of the day, the best solution to this is leaving that relationship because my sanity is really important and it can cause depression or even so many things. There is no greater joy than to be the one who will take care of my child. Depression may lead to death and I would not want such a thing for myself so I’d walk out of the relationship to have a better life.

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It may be easier said than done but I feel that is the best thing to do. Also, it is always better to observe your partner because it won’t be a good thing to end up with someone who can’t stand up for himself or you. That’s going to be really sad. Well, no one is perfect but I hope and pray that God favors our steps.