Over coming anxiety. LOH233.

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1️⃣ People are often fascinated by certain personality traits, styles, or habits of others and feel inspired to adopt them. However, despite their admiration, they may find it challenging to incorporate these traits into their own lives. Are there any specific traits or habits you find particularly admirable? What about these traits captivates you, and why would you like to adopt them? Have you ever made an effort to embrace them, and if so, what challenges did you encounter?

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If there is anything I want to do away in my life is anxiety because it has really dealt with me in such away that when i see people that are anxious they motivate me and I wish to be like them. Self expression in the public is what I found difficult in doing. Is not that I don't talk or speak in public. but when I see people being full of themselves expressing themselves I wish I can be like them.

Like during my child hood time we went to church during one of the Sunday School classes, when the pastor ask someone should pray this little boy started praying upon all the big people that was there in the church. I began to think when will i be like this bold of myself? so one day in the children department one of the aunty asked me to pray. Hmmm my dear it was as if the ground should open and swallow me. If you see how my body was shaking as if someone that have malaria fever it wasn't an easy thing.

Also during my secondary School days, there was a debate going on between my school with another school. And there is this question came up, non of the debaters new it, so when the moderator asked the oudience, no body was able to get the answer and me knowing it refused to answer. So after the debate, the next day my teacher was very mad at me because she knows that I was there and I refused to answer the questions. She beat the nonsense out of me that day.

In so may occasions anxiety has caused me to loose things even now.

And I wish I can do away with it be like other people who does not have this anxiety in them, that I can be bold like them and express myself too.

That's why right now I do allow me kids to mingle and partake in any occasions party in their school or in the church so that they won't end up in like me.

Thanks @amberkashif for this topics it really interesting.

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I understand your desire to overcome anxiety, and allowing your children to participate in any occasion or party at their school or church is a better way to motivate them to express themselves with ease, thank you for sharing your experiences,
!LADY
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I don't want my children to witness what I'm witnessed thanks dear for stopping by.

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Anxiety creates the problem that are not initially there. I wonder if there is something related to your anxiety. I mean something that worked as a causative factor 🤔.

I hope you get out of your anxiety and be able to express yourself

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