Ladies of Hive Community Contest #235 - Tristeza o Felicidad \\ Sadness or Happiness by @lorimusic

1️⃣ How do you recover from emotional pain or grief?

This question without a doubt takes me back in time, answering it will make me go bac to the past and go back with sad memories since 8 months ago I had a breakup with my first partner, it was and has been very difficult and I could say strong because of things that happen that time makes us think and reconsider as adults and realize what our faults and weaknesses were, I will not deny that for me they have been days of great nostalgia learning to be alone again after 3 years sharing with a person, as they say there the first love is the one that hurts the most and the truth is that yes, what I miss the most is how attentive he was but beyond that, what makes me very sentimental is his unconditional support that he gave me, I miss those moments where I need him the most where I feel trapped in a bubble with no way out and where my self-esteem is on the floor. These past few months have been about reflection and analysis. We've helped each other grow stronger, and more than that, mature and aware of things. We've been honest when we make mistakes because we learn from those same mistakes, and it helps us grow stronger so we don't make the same mistakes again, since they are what we learn from and make us grow as human beings. In this way, we've both overcome this. For some time now, we've been writing and talking about everything a little bit, and although my depression is still intact, I give my best, since conversation is the best tool for an effective and efficient relationship.

For me, another pain is the loss of a loved one. As everyone knows, sometimes we say, "Why is life so unfair to people?" It's not easy to lose a family member, friend, or acquaintance. In my case, last week, like others, sadness comes in this way. I experienced that pain with an uncle. He was full of life, not suffering from any illness. It's powerful when GOD 🙏🏻 needs us and we leave unexpectedly and suddenly (a sudden cardiac arrest). However, all we can do is accept the loss and realize that this is the law of life. We are born, we believe, and we die. Only our creator knows when the day will come to depart from this earthly world. We know when we are born, but never when we die.
All we can do is realize and know that one day we will meet again and that we will be together in a world where there is no evil or sadness.

2️⃣ Recibiste una invitación a tres ocasiones especiales, pero todas coinciden en el mismo día y en lugares diferentes: la boda de tu primo, una gran reunión familiar y el aniversario de bodas de tu mejor amigo. ¿Adónde irías y por qué?