Believe in yourself [LOH 163]

Hello everyone

I hope so you all are fine and happy 😊

As humans are different from each other similar we Ladies or girls are also different from each other. Some of us can't tolerate other hurt's them while some fought with bravery. This week in ladiesofhive contest I'll love answer first question as self defense attract me the most.

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Self defense!!!!

Every one need care aself care is most important and self defense also a term of self care. Being a girl I was shy till my childhood but as i grow older i learned only one thing that only me can save me from threat's. Till the age of sixteen i was like everyone hurt's me and i was quite there's no action From my side but now I'm totally change, if someone hurt's me I'll give some reaction too doesn't matter either it's physically or psychologically.

How I change myself???

As we know with time people change but i think we should have to do something to change ourselves. I don't know the first step i took for myself but i know that with the passage of time i learned to fight for myself. There's a few cases when someone hurt me physically but if someone hurt me than I'll hurt him or her back within the speed of nano second.

In the case of psychological threats I never try to burden those stuff on me and try to ignore as much as possible because people always try to hurt us but it's actually us who try to avoid from such people.

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The important thing's we should remember!!!

  • In self defense we've to believe on ourselves and on our limbs that they'll help us
  • we've to prepare our mind for every action.
  • If we go out for home than it must be a necessary thing that we should prepare our mind for every action
  • we should be aware from our surrounding.
  • You should be risky too to defend yourself because sometimes in order to defend yourself the opposite person can hurt you more.

That's all for today and it's also for this week ladiesofhive contest # 163. You can also give your entry to this week contest here.

Thank you for your time and support πŸ’«πŸ€



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Awareness is very important. We should be conscious our environment and notice even the small changes
Thank you for sharing β™₯️

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Yes it's the best thing we should do πŸ˜€

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Wow you seems dangerous ! Haha just kidding! I think it is important for girls to know self defense… i think a lot about that for my daughters… still nowadays there are lots of men that want to abuse women!

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Hahaha yes dangerous for those who want to threaten me, yes you should learn about self defense to your lovely daughters as world is becoming cruel for girls sometimes πŸ’”

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Being situational aware is the best preventative defensive posture. As a Night shift nurse I commute often at dark. But I am very familiar with my routes. I know where and when train attendants patrol, know where the security cameras and alarm stations are. I do carry a weapon but have never came to the option of deploying the blade. Depending on the pursuer can be discouraged by making eye-contact. It boils down to knowing what to watch for and training by a reputable teacher.

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I can relate being a woman it's hard to come back to home alone in dark, but yes we used to our routes and we start to know about it. Stay strong and stay safe dear !LADY

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The changes that someone needs to feel confident in themselves are very important, age does not matter as long as a woman is willing to fight and defend herself. Hug πŸ€—
!LADY

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Yes age isn't the matter but when we start to fight, we become more strong and we change with time πŸ’•

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Being prepared and being aware of your surroundings is half the battle. Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day!πŸ€—πŸ’œ

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In the case of psychological threats I never try to burden those stuff on me.

First of all, I want to say that you are super woman who reacts in nano seconds and you have courage to stand against all the criticism you face. It's good that you don't take people's thoughts over your mind.

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Actually people are the reason why we become strong and powerful, if I'm strong now people are the reason because they create such incidents that I've to change and become strong πŸ˜€

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Always have confidence on yourself that u can do anything. Aware of yourself and your surrounding environment.

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In such a time as this we truly need to know some form of self defense.
Personally I can kick hard and in the right places, I also carry a can of pepper spray for those weaker moments.
Good points there.
Have a great weekend @les90

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Carrying such stuff is really a good thing to do. Well punching on the right side at the right time is great 😸

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