MARRIAGE STANDARD
Marriage has become not so much of a big deal anymore, I feel this is something that will go worse as time goes on. People no longer see the need to get married, especially with the high rate of divorce and the multiple ways to birth children. Marriage is meant for companionship, but today, a lot of people will rather find companionship in a dog than a human being. You know as they say, Dogs are man's best friend. No offence to the animals, but I would rather my companion be a human instead so yes of course I need a female human companion. And with that being said, I’ve always envisioned what I want my wife to look like and truth be told I look at my partner and she has some of those qualities.
But then when it comes to standards, I’ve made it a point to note that when I get to a certain age and status and I’m still unmarried, I would just stay unmarried and find ways to have a child of my own. I do not have too many standards when it comes to the issue of marriage, I just want someone I can build a life with. Although this wasn’t the case for me growing up, at first I wanted to marry a white lady, then I moved to a fair lady (I still prefer them fair though not mandatory) Until I gave up all my beliefs and just wanted a good woman.
But then I asked myself who is a good woman. A lot of people try to be good, but only a few are really that good. I got to find out that it’s in dating a girl you get to understand how she thinks and handles tough situations. A good woman for me is the woman who is ready to grow with me. She doesn’t need to be perfect, as long as she is ready to always unlearn and relearn. I choose this specific trait because I want a family that would not be born out of trauma or negative events, but a family that will learn to love even in hard times.
THIS IS MY RESPONSE TO SCIFI CONTEST PROMPT FOR WEEK 14
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Very simple but loaded standards, you and your partner should grow together not one milking the other.
Yeah, I'm glad you understand. Thanks for stopping by.
The high rate of divorce is very alarming, these days I don't even see a reason for a big wedding as you might end up spending so much only for the marriage to crash a few months later.
Lol, I don't see reason for big weddings too, but not for the same reason. However, I think too many standards or lack of standards contribute to divorce
To find a good woman or man this day is by connection. Cause majority mindset is messed up
Ahswear, that is why if you find one, you must hold them tight
Very well
Honestly most people are not eager to get married these days because of the high rate of divorces amongst other things. I've actually given a thought to just adopting a child and living free but at the same time, I can't help but yearn for a companion. All the same your idea for a wife is just the best: a woman who can learn and unlearn.
A companion is vital in this life, after all the achivements and hustles you will need someone to fall back to.
Very much true. I’ll be in the lookout for one
There are good women and men, and also bad and rotten ones out there, but we only need to pray to marry right because nothing is sweeter than that👍
You are right with your points
Yeah right, you're very correct.
Indeed the ability to learn, relearn and unlearn some things in a relationship is often times underrated. It takes a lot of patience for a person to be like that. In the end, a patient partner is the best anyone can ask for
This is very well said, marriage has become a very ugly thing for us due to excessive divorce. From this we can raise any pet and we have no complaints against it. Very well written. Wishing you success in the competition.