🌷 Ladies of Hive Contest #179: Memorable moments and teachings from my mother [ES/EN]

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¡Hola queridas Damas de Hive! Espero que se encuentren todas muy bien. El día de hoy paso por acá para darle una respuesta a las preguntas de esta semana que son muy hermosas y valiosas para que podamos explayarnos sobre ellas. Bueno, empecemos.

Comparte con nosotros cualquier relaciĂłn memorable entre madre e hija, ya sea buena o mala, tuya o de otra persona que hayas presenciado.

Creo que la relación con mi madre es bastante memorable, la verdad es que somos uña y carne, como se suele decir, ya que hacemos muchas cosas juntas desde siempre. Ella me tuvo una paciencia infinita en varios aspectos de la vida, no porque fuera problemática, sino todo lo contrario. Soy más bien apática y no cumplo el canon de la hija mujer perfecta, aunque tampoco busco serlo, ni ella espera que lo sea. Es gracioso porque diferimos en un montón de opiniones, pero nuestro amor es tan grande que no importan las diferencias. La adoro con mi vida y daría todo lo que tengo y más para que esté bien, y sé que es recíproco aunque ninguna de las dos es muy expresiva verbalmente, estoy segura de que sabe que la amo y yo sé que ella me ama. Es muy raro que mi mamá vaya a algún lado sin mí, si la invitan a un paseo, una cena o un cumpleaños ya saben que irá conmigo o no va. También solía consentirme demasiado cuando era pequeña, y les diría que ahora de adulta es parecido. Nuestra relación siempre fue muy estrecha, además todavía vivo con mis padres, así que paso bastante tiempo con ella en general. Por supuesto que tenemos peleas y nos enojamos la una con la otra, ella tiene un carácter un poco difícil y yo no me quedo atrás cuando me siento atacada, así que suelen saltar chispas, pero al rato o al otro día ya hacemos las paces de nuevo. Adoro a mi vieji y espero tenerla muchos años más conmigo ❤️.

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Cuéntanos algo que hayas aprendido de tu madre, tu hermana o una vecina que ella no te haya enseñado directamente.

Siguiendo el ejemplo de mi madre, todo lo que me inculcó en la vida es no depender de ningún hombre, de hacerme valer y respetar, y saber cuándo es el momento de irme de un lugar que ya no me hace bien. La verdad es que tengo una buena maestra de la vida, también me da fortaleza ver cómo atraviesa cada obstáculo y sigue firme con entereza. Es fuerte y empoderada como cualquier madre que lo da todo de sí, también es una mujer que sufrió mucho desde joven, pero supo sobrevivir a todos los golpes de la vida y seguir adelante. Mi mamá fue la primera persona que me enseñó a tener amor propio y le voy a estar agradecida siempre por eso. Ojalá llegue a ser la mitad de valiente que ella y si algún día me convierto en una madre, espero poder transmitirle lo mismo a mis hijos.

Bueno amigas, estas son mis respuestas a las preguntas de la semana. Espero que les haya gustado e invitĂł a todos los que me lean a participar de este concurso semanal.
Gracias por llegar hasta acá y leer. Qué tengan una gran semana.
¡Hasta la próxima!

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Hello dear Ladies of Hive! I hope you are all feeling well. I'm stopping by today to give you an answer to this week's questions which are very beautiful and valuable for us to elaborate on. Well, let's get started.

Share any memorable mother-daughter relationship with us, whether good or bad, yours or another's own you witnessed.

I think my relationship with my mother is quite memorable, the truth is that we are fingernail and flesh, as they say, since we have always done many things together. She had infinite patience with me in various aspects of life, not because I was problematic, but quite the opposite. I'm rather apathetic and I don't fit the canon of the perfect daughter-woman, although I'm not looking to be one either, nor does she expect me to be. It's funny because we differ on a lot of opinions, but our love is so great that the differences don't matter. I adore her with my life and would give everything I have and more to make her well, and I know it's reciprocated even though neither of us is very verbally expressive, I'm sure she knows I love her and I know she loves me. It is very rare for my mom to go anywhere without me, if she is invited to a walk, dinner or birthday they already know she will go with me or she doesn't go. She also used to spoil me too much when I was little, and I would tell you that now as an adult it is similar. Our relationship was always very close, plus I still live with my parents, so I spend quite a bit of time with her in general. Of course we have fights and get mad at each other, she has a bit of a temper and I'm no slouch when I feel attacked, so sparks usually fly, but after a while or the next day we make up again. I adore my vieji and hope to have her with me for many more years ❤️.

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Tell us about one thing you learned from your mother or sister or a female neighbour that she didn't teach you directly.

Following my mother's example, all she instilled in me in life is not to depend on any man, to assert and respect myself, and to know when it is time to leave a place that is no longer good for me. The truth is that I have a good teacher in life, it also gives me strength to see how she goes through every obstacle and remains strong with fortitude. She is strong and empowered like any mother who gives her all, she is also a woman who suffered a lot since she was young, but she knew how to survive all the blows of life and move forward. My mom was the first person who taught me to have self-esteem and I will always be grateful for that. I hope I can be half as brave as she was and if I become a mother someday, I hope I can pass the same on to my children.

Well friends, these are my answers to the questions of the week. I hope you liked them and I invite everyone who reads me to participate in this weekly contest.
Thanks for coming here and reading. Have a great week.
See you next week!

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I like that you two love each other regardless of the differences you both have in personalities. Our mums are our better teachers indeed.
!LADY

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I also believe it, whether they are good or bad, they are great teachers of our lives. A big greeting!

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Mothers make the world a brighter place. And I love what you learned from your mum honestly

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I agree with your words and yes, mothers are great advisors and teachers of life. Have a nice day!

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