LOH #164 - My plans and wishes this Christmas season🎁⛄

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♥️Hello Ladies of Hive community!♥️

This time I want to participate in the #164 edition of the community contest and so I can tell you my plans and wishes for this Christmas season.

Christmas for me has always been boring and monotonous since I was a little girl, I remember that since I was very little my mom and I would go to Caracas to my aunts house, she worked day and night to have extra money for my toys and clothes, my dad on the other hand stayed in Maturin working alone too, year after year was the same. Even on December 24th everyone went to sleep and asked for the same things so that "the baby Jesus" would arrive in the morning, on December 31st it was the same, there was no dinner or celebration, everyone arrived tired to sleep and the children and the younger ones waited for the new year sitting on the furniture, we would tell the adults and then we would go to bed to sleep, there was never anything interesting.

There was never a decorated house, no tree, nothing. Everyone would go to "hawk" in the street because that was the way to make money, with those people who at Christmas always look for gifts and things at the last minute. I don't despise my mother for that, I know she did it to give me better things, since we were quite poor at that time, but I would have liked to spend just one Christmas together in a decorated house, with dinner and my parents together without thinking about working.

♥️¡Hola comunidad de Damas de Hive!♥️

En esta oportunidad quiero participar en la edición #164 del concurso de la comunidad y así poder contarles mis planes y deseos para esta época de navidad.

Las navidades para mí siempre han sido aburridas y monótonas desde que soy una niña, recuerdo que desde muy pequeña mi mamá y yo nos íbamos a Caracas a casa de mis tías, ella trabajaba día y noche para tener dinero extra para mis juguetes y ropa, mi papá por otro lado se quedaba en Maturin trabajando sólo también, año tras año fue lo mismo. Incluso, los 24 de diciembre todos llegaban a dormir y nos pedían los mismo para que "el niño Jesús" llegara en la mañana, el 31 de diciembre era lo mismo, no había cena ni celebración, todos llegaban cansados a dormir y los niños y más jóvenes esperábamos el año nuevo sentados en el mueble, les avisabamos a los adultos y después nos acostabamos a dormir, nunca hubo nada interesante.

Nunca hubo una casa decorada, ni un arbolito, nada. Todos iban a "buhonear" en la calle porque era la forma de hacer dinero, con esas personas que en navidad siempre buscan regalos y cosas a última hora. No desprecio a mi madre por eso, sé que lo hacía por darme mejores cosas, ya que éramos bastante pobres en aquella época, pero sí me hubiera gustado pasar una sola navidad juntos en una casa decorada, con cena y mis padres juntos sin pensar en trabajar.

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My plans for this Christmas are not so many, but they are very significant for me, since it is my first Christmas in my own home.

This time I do want to decorate my house, because it is something important to me, to rescue what I never had as a child, even if it is just a few things because of the economic issue, the important thing is the intention and the action.

Another thing I would like to do is to spend Christmas with my mom but receive the year in my new home, with my partner and my cat Mathias, who are or are becoming the family that I built, the one I chose and not the one that touched me, when you build something I feel that you do it from what you lacked to avoid past mistakes and heal your inner child.

Among other things like making a very typical Christmas dinner in my country, my first hallaquitas, salad, ham bread, etc.

Christmas activities that I want to celebrate and start creating that ritual for my future children and so in general.

I have always thought about my wishes for Christmas and the truth is that I only wish for peace, when there is peace in your heart everything has a solution and you do not see obstacles in the way.

I wish peace and health for every person in the world, less violence and more awareness, more empathy so we can make the world a better place.

Mis planes para estas navidades no son tantos, pero sí bien significativos para mí, ya que es mi primera navidad en mi propio hogar.

En esta oportunidad yo si quiero decorar mi casa, porque es algo importante para mí, rescatar aquello que nunca tuve de niña, así sean pocas cosas por el tema económico, lo importante es la intención y la acción.

Otra cosa que quisiera hacer es pasar la navidad con mi mamá pero recibir el año en mi nuevo hogar, junto a mi pareja y mi gato Mathías, que son o vienen siendo la familia que yo construí, la que elegí y no la que me tocó, cuando tú construyes algo siento que lo haces desde lo que te faltó para evitar los errores del pasado y sanar tu niño interior.

Entre otras cosas como hacer una cena navideña muy típica de mi país, mis primeras hallaquitas, ensalada, pan de jamón, etc.

Actividades navideñas que quiero celebrar y empezar a crear ese ritual para mis futuros hijos y así en general.

Siempre he pensado en mis deseos para navidad y la verdad, es que solo deseo paz, cuando hay paz en tu corazón todo tiene solución y no ves trabas en el camino.

Deseo paz y salud para que cada persona en el mundo, menos violencia y más conciencia, más empatía para que podamos hacer del mundo un lugar mejor.


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Te deseo que tengas una linda Navidad con tus seres queridos.

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Muchas gracias por tus buenos deseos, te envío un abrazo♥️🫶🏻

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Oh my dear, it was unfortunate that in your childhood you could not celebrate Christmas. I was not in a similar situation but I was also in a environment where we never got to celebrate these festivities. But now you have resources so you can do it and live up your childhood dreams. It is never too late and you can also share the happiness with your mother. I am sure her heart will be delighted.

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Yes, just like that, now I have the power to make it different, and of course I will include my mother, she has been all my strength in this time, since dad died she has been there for me. And in these years that have passed I can only thank her for all the love and effort she has given me.
This Christmas will be different and special!♥️

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That’s a beautiful wish,The world would be a better place is we had peace.

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That's right my friend, peace brings happiness and hope in this world so full of pain!♥️

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