I never planned to broke his heart but I did after stolen it.

Have you stolen someone's heart and then broken it? Explain. Remember to use your own photos.

This topic reminded me of what happened over 17th years ago. On December 2012, a certain young man fell in love with me. His name is Chibuike or God's Power in English. I was in my late 20's then. He is handsome and caring but i wasn't moved with that because of men rubbish ladies in my area. He kept on coming while i kept on turning him down. He later met with my Cousin sister and told her his intentions about me. He wants to get married to me not just friendship. Well, i decided to give him a trial. He was very nice guy and he actually took me home to meet with his parents.

Gradually, i fell in love with him too. He kept on taking me out on weekends and bombarded me with gifts. You know women loves gift a lot. Hahahaha. With all these caring, our love for each other grows so deep. He actually loves me more than i do to him. One faithful weekend, i visited him and he didn't let me go. He insisted that I should sleep over but i refused. Hmmmm, he got angry with me and lock the door and insisted that i won't step outside. I had no options than to stay back. That same night, i lost my virginity in his hand and that made him to love me more. He couldn't believe that am still a virgin. But inside me, i started hating him because he took it by force.

He pleaded with me to forgive him for his selfish act when he notices that everything about him irritates me. As a human, i forgaved him. Though it took me time to revisit him again. Few weeks later, we continued with our love life. But something came up. He was so jealous to the point that he doesn't want to see anyone called man around me. He set up spices to watch me wherever i am. Once a man is talking to me, he will call me immediately or later to confront me. I told him that he should stop that. He told me that he is protecting his property, hehe.

Not just that, he always wants me to visit him every weekend. And if i give him excuses he wouldn't want to hear. He always wants me around. And i can't go with such rules and regulations. I need time for myself and for others too. When i found out that abiding to all his rules brings quarrel, i decided to abide by his rules but inside my mind, i have decided to quit him. Then, my late mom was leaving in the city with my elder sister and her attention is needed for my marriage right to proceed. So, we planned together tha i should go to the city to meet with my mom and my elder sister to tell them about his proposal. He bought me a lot of presents with engagement necklace. I spent a night with him before traveling the next day. He thought i waa going to come back to him not knowing it was our last night together. When i get to the city, he kept on calling and sending money to me. After one month, he asked me to come back. Hahahaha, i told him to move on with his life because i can't continue with him. Because his intimidations was too much for me.

He couldn't believe his ears. He nearly run mad. Kept on calling and pleading. Sending his friends to call me. But i never listened to him. He even threatened to kill me if i leave him. After two years of not traveling home, everything died off.

I actually broke his heart but it wasn't my fault. This is my story

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