Ladies of Hive Community Contest #235 (ESP/ENG)

Hello hello internet people, how are you? Today I am willing to participate in this contest once again to answer the questionnaire as it touches on a very interesting topic that I would like to talk about because many times it is difficult for us to channel emotions and heal wounds.
Hola hola gente de internet ¿Cómo están? Hoy me dispongo a participar de este concurso una vez más para responder el cuestionario ya que toca un tema bastante interesante del que me gustaría hablar porque muchas veces nos cuesta canalizar emociones y sanar heridas.
How do you recover from emotional pain or grief?
¿Cómo te recuperas del dolor emocional o la pena?
Recovering from emotional pain is not easy, it requires a lot of focus and awareness of our mental health. I simply focus on the fact that nothing lasts forever, neither the good nor the bad, everything is ephemeral, so when I go through a difficult situation, for example love disappointments I think that those negative thoughts of sadness, disappointment and anger will end up fading like dust in the wind, however recovering from a grief such as the loss of a family member is much harder and difficult, I have had to live it a few times, for example when I lost my grandfather and my aunt a few days apart, and another of my aunts because of Covid 19, it was a terribly painful experience for me, but I hold on to the hope that they are in a better place, that they are resting from earthly sufferings and that someday we will meet again, meanwhile I focus my energies on productive and healthy things like drawing, creating content, focusing on my work and surrounding myself with people and positive messages. Although ephemeral, life is unique, beautiful and full of blessings.
Recuperarse del dolor emocional no es nada fácil, requiere de mucho enfoque y de tomar consciencia de nuestra salud mental. Yo simplemente me concentro en el hecho de que nada dura para siempre, ni lo bueno ni lo malo, todo es efímero, así que cuando paso por una situación difícil, por ejemplo decepciones amorosas pienso que esos pensamientos negativos de tristeza decepción y rabia terminarán desvaneciéndose como polvo en el viento, no obstante reponerse a un duelo como por ejemplo la perdida de un familiar es mucho más duro y difícil, lo he tenido que vivir algunas veces, por ejemplo cuando perdí a mi abuelo y mi tía con unos días de diferencia, y a otra de mis tías a causa del Covid 19, fue una experiencia terriblemente dolorosa para mi, pero me aferro a la esperanza de que están en un lugar mejor, que descansan de los sufrimientos terrenales y que algún día nos reencontraremos, mientras tanto enfoco mis energías en cosas productivas y sanas como dibujar, crear contenido, enfocarme en mi trabajo y rodearme de personas y mensajes positivos. Aunque es efímera, la vida es única, hermosa y está llena de bendiciones.

You received an invitation to three special occasions, but they all fall on the same day and at different locations — a wedding of your cousin, a huge family reunion, and your best friend's wedding anniversary. Where would you go and why?
Has recibido una invitación para tres ocasiones especiales, pero todas caen el mismo día y en lugares distintos: la boda de tu primo, una gran reunión familiar y el aniversario de boda de tu mejor amigo. ¿Adónde irías y por qué?
I would definitely attend my cousin's wedding because he would probably be part of that “family reunion” in the opposite case, i.e. my cousin is on my mother's side and the family reunion is on my father's side, I would still attend my cousin's wedding because it is a unique event, on the other hand there may be other family reunions, even I myself could organize another one for another occasion, and as for my best friend's wedding I think I would just send the gift, is that in my codes, family comes first, of course friends are important, but family is the priority. Anyway in my country people usually do two weddings, the civil (the legal wedding with the judge) and the ecclesiastical (the religious, with the priest) in that case it is easier to coordinate the situation because I could attend the civil wedding of my best friend and the ecclesiastical wedding of my cousin.
Sin lugar a dudas asistiría a la boda de mi primo porque probablemente él forme parte de esa "reunión familiar" en caso contrario, es decir, que mi primo sea por parte de madre y que la reunión familiar sea por parte de padre, de todos modos asistiría a la boda de mi primo porque es un evento único, en cambio que puede haber otras reuniones familiares, incluso yo misma podría organizar otra para otra ocasión, y en cuanto a la boda de mi mejor amigo/a creo que yo solo enviaría el regalo, es que en mis códigos, la familia está en primer lugar, claro que los amigos son importantes, pero la familia es la prioridad. De todos modos en mi país la gente suele hacer dos bodas, la civil (la boda legal con el juez) y la eclesiástica (la religiosa, con el sacerdote) en ese caso es más fácil coordinar la situación porque yo podría asistir a la boda civil de mi mejor amigo/a y a la eclesiástica de mi primo.

And well, people, that's all for today's post, I hope you liked it. Thank you very much as always for supporting my work, I welcome new readers, I love you all very much, I send you a hug and I'll see you in another post.
Y bueno, gente, esto ha sido todo por el post de hoy, espero que les haya gustado. Muchas gracias como siempre por apoyar mi trabajo, le doy la bienvenida a los nuevos lectores, les quiero mucho a todos, les envío un abrazo y ya nos encontraremos en otro post

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Certainly life is one and full of blessings, focusing energies on productive and healthy things like the ones you describe, besides surrounding yourself with people and positive messages is very valuable, and the family is the priority, thank you for sharing your experiences,
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Looking at things from a different perspective, even amid sorrow or grief, allows us to shift our energies to healthier things. It also helps to have people around us who care and listen, even when they don't completely understand what we are going through.
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Yes, these aspects are very important
Yo uso con frecuencia la frase "todo pasa" y al igual que tú, pienso que eso que estoy sintiendo, también pasará. Me enfoco en un futuro libre de ese dolor y poco a poco lo voy superando. Al final, el tiempo lo cura todo.
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Si, asi es :3
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