Don't Respond to Everything Around in Life

Sometimes we have an urge to respond to everything that comes our way. We choose to react to everything that is going on. And that is one of the biggest mistake we can do in our everyday life and something we have to change if we want to have less load on our head.

Here's something we can discuss about why not to respond to everything that comes our way.

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Don't Respond to Every Comment

A lot of times when you respond to the negative comments, you tend to be attracting even more negativity. I experienced this recently. I used to negative comments and then suddenly negative votes started coming just because I responded to that person. So you can get the idea if you want to avoid something like this you have to avoid responding to such comments.

Don't Take every Business lead that comes to You

If you are business person you may get a lot of business leads. And a lot of leads are going to be making you further overworked for less returns. So not every business lead is worth taking and not worth going for. You have to pick what works for you and build on the same. Not all people can make every business leads successful and some of the time you have to let go as well.

Don't take every job offer that Comes to You

If you are into the working job environment then you know how responding to every job offer would cost you. And so you have to make sure that you give the job offers that suits your skill set and not for the sake of the bills. Because sometimes our adjustment with the rest of the world is biggest problem that hurts us the most.

Don't Talk to every stranger or every discussion Around

Sometimes your days are good and you feel like helping every stranger that is out there. And we tend to be helpful towards strangers and try to be helpful in every discussion. And so both of those scenarios are pretty bad. And we have to understand that not every battle is meant to be for us. We have to pick and choose our battles for the long term.

We have to learn to understand which battles are meant to be for us. And which battles we are supposed to let go. And so we have to understand how to respond and react and at what time with our life as well. So that sort of the approach would be getting us more safe and also comfortable in our routine.

Conclusion

I have learned this lesson the hard way that not every fight that is going out there is meant to be played. And you have to make sure that you are not jumping into every problem that occurs outside. You have to pick and choose your direction with the life and not choose every direction that is out there.

Do you respond to everything that comes or you choose your battles wisely?